November is Catholic Social Services’ Annual Appeal – and we’re asking for your help in supporting our work giving hope to those who need it most.
We’re sharing stories of hope made possible by Catholic Social Services supporters.
When eight-year-old Tama* lost his father suddenly, his world changed overnight. The once bright and curious boy became quiet and withdrawn, struggling to make sense of the grief that weighed heavily on his young shoulders. His mum, unsure how to support him through such a profound loss, reached out to Catholic Social Services and discovered the Seasons for Growth programme.
Tama joined a small group of children who, like him, were navigating the challenges of change, loss, and grief. Guided by a trained Companion, the group met weekly in a safe and nurturing space where stories were shared, feelings were named, and healing began. Through creative activities, storytelling, and gentle conversation, Tama began to understand that grief is not something to “get over,” but something to grow through.
One day, Tama shared a memory of fishing with his dad. The group listened with kindness, and another child offered, “I miss my nana too.” In that moment, Tama realised he wasn’t alone. The peer support network gave him a sense of belonging and hope—his grief was seen, heard, and held.
Over the weeks, Tama began to build his kete—a basket of tools to help him cope. He learned ways to express his emotions, strategies to manage tough days, and the importance of remembering his dad with love, not just sadness. His mum noticed the change: “He’s smiling again. He talks about his dad, but he’s not overwhelmed anymore.”
The Seasons for Growth programme doesn’t take away the pain of loss, but it offers something just as powerful—hope. Hope that healing is possible, that children can grow through grief, and that no one has to walk the journey alone.
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*Name changed to protect privacy.